A young boy is sitting in the airport. After a while another girl sat beside him. Both are waiting for the departure of the plane.
In the meantime, the young woman is eating a big cookie packets and eating the cookies. The young boy is eating biscuits from the same packet!
The young girl started to feel a little distraught.
"It's kind of rude, someone is taking a biscuit from the packet of another biscuit!"
The young boy took another biscuit. The young man also took another.
The girl got fed up with annoyance
And think,
"What kind of a savage young boy is this country, the country is weird." Goodbye knows. "
The extreme limits of frustration. It seems to be the young boy in mind.
Mood reached the extreme limit of bad
When there was only one biscuit left to eat.
The young boy took that biscuit,
And he gave it two pieces in half and gave half a play.
The girl then surpassed her limits.
"Hey kid! I have eaten my cookies so long, and again half of the last biscuit, I want to see the gentleman, as savage citizens of the unbearable country!"
In the meantime, the young boy had to leave the plane. And he went away.
The girl was still late to leave the plane
She opened the bag to find a book from her bag.
She was surprised when she opened the bag,
His face became red in shame.
He started feeling himself very small.
What do you know?
For that young boy. The young boy gave him half of the last biscuit.
The packet of the same kind of biscuit remains in its bag. When the young woman realizes that she thinks the young boy has eaten it!
It's too late. The young man then got on the plane of his destination.
Its name is Paradigm Shift. Communication paradigm shift means that you think something like that, and it may not actually be, and you will get a sense of shame once you understand it.
The story above is a famous story. Many people know this story. The story can change us.
Think of what I think, right?
Thinking that someone wants to harm you, though he is sacrificing a lot for your welfare.
Paradigm Shift is one of the major reasons for creating communication gaps.
When you know, it is not like the girl in the airport.
It's too late.
In every day of life, while striking others, remembering this Paradigm Shift while leaving others will be good in many crises.
The one-line idea is an enemy to stay good. To hear from all sides, think about it.