It is true that we our natural man is born of the flesh, and even after we being born of the spirit, the flesh still exercises on influence over our lives.
The flesh is very selfish, and it always ask for things that satisfies it, things that suits it's own taste, which are contrary to the will of God.
The flesh pushes us against the commandments of God, it tries to push us out of the will of God, and into doing it's own will, but we can and we should overcome it.
As Christians, we must be careful, though the flesh try it's best to get us to do its bidding, we must know that we are able to resist it by the spirit of God, who dwells in us.
The flesh will not rule over you from big things, it will start from little things that looks like they don't matter, but will time turn to serious issues.
People bound by addictions didn't start that big, it was the acceptance of little sins that lead to the introduction of big sins into their lives, and by time they know what is happening, it is too late
Little lies I am on my way, when you are actually just about to take your bath, can lead to big lies, that will alter your Christian testimony.
There are many things that you may be doing, thinking they don't matter, but that's how the flesh enlarges it's authority over your life, unknown to you
The devil will not tell you how far he will take you when he starts walking with you, it is when it is too late, that you will know you have gone really far, but it is never too late to turn back.
Flesh only ask us to dance to its tune, it would tell us that even if it is just one sin, you should try too. It would tell you everybody is doing it, so you should do it too. But if you follow it's voice, you are doomed.
Because, once you give the flesh one thing, it will keep asking for more and you may not be able to deny it again.
When you turn to follow the flesh, sin will no longer be irritating to you, it will seem Normal and even sweet, because your conscience is losing its efficiency.
When you allow the flesh to take the lead, it will always work against the spirit of God in you, and you will just find yourself doing the things you don't want to do and not doing the things you wants to do. Because the flesh lusts after the spirit, and the spirit after the flesh.
The way of the spirit is always better than the ways of the flesh, and both are always laid before us, the one we support is the one that prevails and rules our lives, so choose wisely who your lord would be your flesh, or the spirit of God.
Thanks
Tosam