When I miss approaching me, I just stay silent. And recalling every event, remembering what I saw at that time. When I see the expanse of ocean clouds, the roar of smoke coming from you, and the winds of strong winds that always take me far, far penetrate into peace and tranquility.
Some humans grow old without ever having independence. Some children have learned hard about independence. Independence is not about age.
Dip yourself into an environment that can make you independent. The environment can make you independent, but you decide to choose the environment, and you decide to succeed in that environment. Every second of life is like an image that has never been seen, and an image that will never appear again. Only people who are grateful are able to enjoy every sad - troublesome - pain as a precious moment.
When you start living independently, in that second you see a clear light. That is the light of the future.