Mate is one of the mysteries ever to be questioned by mankind. And if someone asks about mate to someone else. Then they will create different answers from them.
For example, if you ask a mate to a person who does not have a heartbeat. Maybe they will answer about mate with perfect criterion. For example a handsome, steadfast, well-educated, had some memorization, had a good lineage or nasab. And many more are born out of the idea.
Essentially human beings are created in pairs between men and women, normal Humans usually have an interest in the opposite sex. They tend to attract a person's attention to sympathy from someone he or she considers (it is for women).
While men usually tend to spread charm to attract the attention of women, men sometimes also like to pretend suddenly charismatic in front of women that he likes and that for the purpose of imaging.
Jodoh Is part of the secret of destiny. Destiny is the provision of God that has been established as a human being still in the womb, as well as sustenance & death. Your soul mate has been predestined by God, and he will not go anywhere. But the mate will not come if not sought. It's the same with sustenance. Sustenance will not be achieved if not attempted.