Everything is just a matter of time. If your time hasn't come yet for a particular thing, don't be too alarmed. Because it will surely come. Just that it is still on the way.
But, instead of just focusing on what's yet to arrive and blaming yourself or some others for the delay, why not look at those things you already have and ENJOY them while thanking GOD for them at the same time.
You see, everyone has something and everyone lacks something in this world. I may be wrong, but I don't think there's anyone anywhere who truly has EVERYTHING they need or want in this life at a time.
So, don't feel bad about what you have now, what you have is some other people's needs. And, what you lack is in the possession of some others. But with patience, we all shall have all that we truly need in life. Well, we may not physically possess all that we want.
Now, you applied for a visa, you were denied. That's what you lack. Other people apply and they have their wishes granted, that's what they have.
But, think deeply. Are you on a sick bed right now? Some of those granted visa have some special diseases in their body, which isn't your own problem. So, being denied visa shouldn't make you to think the world is coming to an end, because there are people who were granted visa but lack good health. So, thank God.
You need certain amounts of money to achieve specific things but didn't get it. But some people have plenty money but lack peace of mind.
You are looking for a husband or wife, others have that. But, you have a job or good job and there are some who are married who lack such a good job.
You must understand that life has stages, and our destinies or life purpose evolve with time. You may not have gotten much or some of the major things you desire right now, but you'll surely get all that you need.
However, while working to acquire your desires, relax and enjoy what you already have in your possession. Thank God for what you have today. Thank God for where you are right now. While you look forward to getting what you want and reaching where you're going.
Stop feeling bad for things you're yet to see manifest in your life. Start thanking God for things you already have and control.
Be happy with yourself and for yourself. Because, sometimes, not getting what you want yet is a form of blessing to you.
There is a reason for every good thing that was delayed. There is a reason also for every good thing that was allowed. You may not know the reason. But you should just enjoy what you are given.
Enjoy Your Life Today. Enjoy what you have right now. There is time for everything. And your time for everything shall soon be here. But, while you lack what you need, understand that some people also lack what you have. Be grateful and wait for your time.