The rate at which marriages collapse now is assuming a social status symbol in our society. In no-time, people will be throwing divorce parties and invite friends and well-wishers to celebrate their divorce anniversaries; they will choose aso-ebi, hire a hall and popular musicians and what have you. Even a question like "So when are you getting divorced?" will become common. If you know you can't handle the weight and pressures of marriage, pls remain single.
If you don't know what marriage is all about, pls remain single until you do.
If you are getting married because of the things you desire or hope to gain from your life partner, pls remain single. If you know you can't be faithful, remain single.
If you can't endure insults from one another, pls remain single. If you can't forgive one another's wrongs, pls remain single. If you can't place your spouse above every other human being, pls remain single! Don't get married out of desperation or pressure. "All my friends are getting married" is the most foolish reason to get married! If you desire a successful home, but your choice of friends is a force not to reckon with, think again.
Be very mindful of where you go for advices, Many would give, but not many mean well! Guys, if you know you can't put your wife ahead of your ego, pls remain single till you're mature.
Your wife is your priority and EVERYTHING else including you, comes second. You are the teacher, the guide, the bodyguard, the role model - you are not a deity or God. So do not expect to be worshiped. You need respect, earn it by being responsible!
Ladies, if you know you can't be submissive pls don't go into marriage so you're not turned to a punch bag! If you know you can't stand being corrected, pls remain single.
Mr/Mrs I know it all!!! Ladies check your domestic scorecard - if your score is 0, pls stay in your parents' house!
