I agree with everything written about family feuds. I'd like to add that depending on the circumstances; it is sometimes appropriate (and healthy) to let go of certain relationships after you've tried your hardest to work on them. Cancer has taught me to let go of a few toxic people; family and friends. Our bodies need the energy from positive people, not the hurtful people. If a family member or friend does not have it in them to let go of the past and continues to treat us with disrespect; it is okay to let go of the relationship. Partiularly if you know that you tried your hardest to forgive and were accountable for your part. Simply because we became family through marriage or were born into a family, it does not mean that we have to love them. Respect yes, but it has to be reciprocal. Have a wonderful day everyone. May you all get the respect that you deserve!