Men should be humble a times and make sure they listen attentively to their wives. Unnecessarily judgement may spoil things. A simple scenario is what happened to a man which I have share for people to learn.
He came home from work, tired. Sat down on the sofa. Put his feet up.
Wife brought him a glass of water. Son gave him a sheet of paper
And he read through:
English Lang. 17%
Biology 25%
Mathematics 10%
Physics 17%
Chemistry 22%
Economics 12%
Agric. Science 19%
Religion Knowl. ABSENT
Geography 18%
Suddenly, he lost his temper and started shouting:
"What is this? All the time on phone and TV.
How dare you show me such marks?
How dare you?
His Wife said: "Be patient. Listen...."
He told her:
"Shut up!
It's your love and pampering that has spoilt him. He is no good and never serious at all."
His Wife said:
"Oh Really?"
He said:
"Yes!!!! No one in our family has performed so badly, ever."
Finally...... after getting tired of ranting and raving.....
Son said:
"Dad, I am sorry I made you angry. I was cleaning the old cupboard and I found this."
"It is your old school report card, dated 27th July, 1980 sir."
Dad became humbled and dumbfounded. Imagine the atmosphere afterwards. Calmness in the air.... and the house for several weeks.....
Patience is key!
Do not hasten to judge. Listen more, listen longer.
I see your family moving to Glory in Jesus name