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Starting with my blog, one simple question; “How many of us does acknowledge our parents’ or family’s concern and avoid to fight for no reason understanding their point of view and their experience in life?” I won’t reply anything to this question because this is to ask ourselves about it. Ask yourself and after getting an answer proceed with my blog further. It may somehow somewhere change your views as you reach the end of it.
Starting with the main content. Family! This is a word that we’ve been learning since our play group. We know what family is. Parents, Grandparents, Uncle – Aunt, Siblings, Cousins. But we do know a little till who they are and they’re our family. But little do we know that it is not just that people called so or coming in these sections are called family. They’re a lot more than that. They are the ones sharing our emotions, our sad and happy moments and every moment of our life together without even a small hesitation. If we say only people under above called sections are family you’re wrong. There are parents who use their child/children as source of money or work, and nothing else. They never pay attention to their child’s tremor or moments they have in their life. They aren’t called family. Family could be just more than Parents, Grandparents, etc. They could be in form of friends, colleagues, partners, animals(pets), etc. Term/word Family is much more than just words. Just the word means a lot in our lives than anything in life. When someone says “you’re my family or I’m your family”, it is a level up of our happiness and emotions coming through. Some people won’t even get that feeling in years, because they never understand the meaning of that word. Bur for few it is the only thing in their lives. It is like conquering the whole world if you have a family. One can always get rid of their emotions With'em.
There are a lot of people without family left alone in this world, with no one to share anything. Have you ever imagined how difficult it could be to stay alone, until it’s some Saint or priest. We’re lucky to have people around who care and show concern. We should actually be thankful to them for that and to God and our Karma for giving us that life with family. But little do we know that sometimes knowingly and sometimes unknowingly we hurt them because of just a feeling of irritation comes in us while they show their concern. It is not always we should be rude, about it. They may sometimes cross the caring level, but if talk it out smoothly it could work like that too. We just need to be patient and calm about this whole thing. It’s not about one relationship I’m talking about but every relation we have. Maybe not today all understand it, but someday when we lose our loved ones we get that straight into our head what people mean by not always being rude in our relationships. When we do that, being rude, doesn’t mean you don’t care but it means hurting them unknowingly when you’re frustrated or angry. They care for you, they wish good for you and that is why we should control our selves and our feelings, cause just hurting and bursting out on them won’t let our other problems go if you think so. Family is something you won’t get every life of yours. But, when you’ve got it, try to respect and enjoy with them.
I chose such a topic cause like to tell everyone something that I feel. We don’t get the importance of any of our close and dear ones until we lose them. So I write blogs that make my favourite readers and followers realise what they’re missing in life when they’re frustrated or angry, etc. We all have problems but bursting on our family who cares for us is not the reason to remove our frustration and just run from the problems. So in the end I just want to tell you all to remember our family does not exist only till parents, grandparents, siblings, uncle-aunt, cousins; but also our partners, friends, and close friends. All those who care for us are our family. So try not hurt any of them and burst at them when you’re not in a mood.