Life is in stages and no stage is more important than the other, it is the value we place on any stage of life that makes it more important. So we got to utilize every stage we find ourselves.
Being single is one of those stages in life. But it surprises me to see singles taking their stage of being single as a curse! And this madness of rushing into marriage is more among ladies than the men.
image by meBeing single is never a curse but an opportunity to prepare properly for marriage. Enjoy the goodies that comes with singleness and build yourself to be a better a mother/wife or father/husband in the nearest future.
It is a beautiful thing to be married but then you must follow it gradually. I have seen a lot of marriages in shambles and so I am doing everything not to be like them. I have friends who are suffering today because of the wrong marriages of their parents that never made the words love and caring present in any of the children.
I have never seen where award was giving for getting married very early as a youth, so why the rush and desperation as though marriage is the greatest achievement in life?
See my dear reader, if you are still single like myself, then be single and happy with your life while you look forward to your marriage. Be happy for the now because you are not sure of tomorrow!