Okay WOW. Firstly, kudos. It's not easy to be the woman behind her man going through all of this and being this supportive. I salute you for that, coz if it were me, I'd be nagging the hell out of my husband. I don't think I would have been so gracious to his siblings given the circumstances.
But secondly, and more importantly, thank goodness it sounds like things have moved past those dodgy years. Years that I'm sure you're glad to be able to put behind you!
RE: My brother-in-law pimped his wife