When you get married and after the honey moon feeling wears off to have two choices .either you work hard on your marriage or you don’t . The dont part includes not taking no as a answer when you went to go out with your friends or you want to buy certain things .Esp the situations where your so called friends emasculate you cuz they joke like ,”what’s the matter ,your wife won’t let you out “ or “man your whipped good “ or the most popular one “you have to ask your wife permission “. YOU ALL GO AHEAD AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS if you cannot put your family first .yes it stings but your family needs you more and it’s tough to find friends who truly understand .cuz while my friends who don’t take no as an answer and do what they want despite their wives or husbands concerns ,I’ll be taking my family to Disney land while you fight in family court over custody and child payments . You lie in the bed you made mofo’s