Family is the name of obstacle.
(when we do something, the first curse will come and the obstacles will come and then, family will stop you.)
Family is the name of proud.
(During the time of learning, the time was stopped, but when the time came, it was the boy who earned the reputation, when the family made him famous and all the credit was made to them, though these were the first obstacles.)
Don't know why it happens with most of family's. Parents need to know about how to support there children for better work.