Our understanding of the family is now very much changed from the base of this concept. Many factors influence this, including new technologies that make our lives easier and equalize rights between men and women. But do not forget that the right is not equal, and each shall perform its function in the social unit, like the gears in the clock.
A man must always be a support, advocate, earner. Let the meaning of these words in our time has changed a lot. Be the support - it means support in a difficult moment, to be intelligent, kind, cheerful, creative, courageous, strict, giving valuable advice. It sounds like you to want too much, guys. Of course, you are so tired at work and loaded pressing problems that only a TV or some gadget can save you from it, give you relax. Yes, the reason is very cool, and most importantly acting.
As for women, gender equality prevails in our time, but most of the women with whom I had occasion to talk on the subject, do not approve of such an opinion. And it gives a small split in all aspects: social, family, work. But let's get back to the family. Everyone knows for a long time that a woman - a "kitty" that need your care, tenderness, weasel. Follow these small physical and moral requirements and "fuck" your brain will be much less.
Women, you are in any way a sculptor, a man takes an entirely different kind of behavior with you. His friends did not know the reason that you are so influenced him, but, in general, such changes are observed in the "candy-flower" period, then everything calms down and goes into "domestic homicide".
You can change everything now, just started praising her man, even for little things. He wants to make it better in any case, because you notice how he was trying to let you wash the plate for him, but the next time he will do it better.
But, expressing what he is inconsiderate slob, you have booked a place at the sink, stove. And this applies not only to the above example, and everything that happens around you. You should only start to notice it. All in your hands. Sculpt their men and enjoy family life.