I actually called CPS once because my foster sons siblings were in a hideous situation. it was either call the police or CPS. I hated making the call knowing that it could end very badly. But to my amazement it ended well and with a positive outcome. Yes, when we ask the paternal State to care for us we give ourselves up to the State. They own us. Glad you are forwarding the rewards to a good cause. Blessings.