This story has been going on for a long time, but I am interested to tell it back now
We live in a remote countryside precisely at the tip of Sumatra island, when I was 12 years old, I was still in elementary school, Next to my house was a family, they had four boys only a few years old, at that time his first child was 17 years old and some of his siblings were between the ages of 15 and 7, looking like their lucky family have many workers in the future and will be happy for both their parents
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but what happens next with their children, it turns out they are fighting each other in various things, and it happens very often, we neighbors are annoyed to see what every day happens, they sometimes do not hesitate to meluakai each other, we neighbors do not dare to do anything. their parents sometimes do not care about what their children are doing, and let it continue to recur all the time, unfavorable scenery like this continues, sometimes trivial things like fighting over toys or seats just sit there they argue and to use wooden blocks to hit his brother or brother, really we the neighbors upset to see this omission happens, the fight often happens when their parents not at home, because most of the rural people daily do activities in the fields to meet the needs of their families, they are like living in ancient times, such as training themselves to become a tough knight in the future..
in fact our life was no longer primitive, we are familiar with education and modern things at the time
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What happens in their family..?
1 The first thing I think is .. Their parents are less educated
- education becomes the main thing in life
- every parent should learn how to take care of their children, explaining how good life in the family, cultivating my love in the family, they are able to win together in every way, every one of their children is born from the same mother and naturally they must keep each other in life.
2 . lack of parental affection for children
- This often happens for several reasons. for example: their parents often quarrel, economic circumstances are less fortunate, often hit by disaster, and this is very related to the first thing that is (education)
What to do if this has happened in your environment
if this is left unchecked, bad things will happen to the family, maybe their lives will end tragically
side effects of it could have an effect on other families around them, indeed at that moment I did nothing to stop the bad things continue to happen, and others did not do anything to prevent things that are not good, only fate that keeps them alive even though it is still repeated at any time, another solution I think to overcome it if it happens to our environment is to report to the relevant parties so that the ignorant parents can get direction or guidance so that the situation does not happen again.
There may be friends who can add. what else needs to be done so that our neighbors' children do not always fight which is bad for our environment, I expect a bit of advice
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here's my short story 17 years ago. the story of my neighbors' neighbors life and annoying all the neighbors, I hope such a thing does not happen to my life and my next neighbor, I'm sure the same story has also happened to other people's environments. and hopefully it will never happen again