Yesterday, being in the same corridors where I walk now, I talked with one of the Proteccion Councilors of the place where I work.
He told me what we always find ourselves in day to day in the Council of Protection, and yet, I do not know why, it was yesterday when I felt all the fussiness that I would normally feel in these situations, and that I did not feel ... Except now.
He told me that there was the case of a father who was fighting, "killing himself" for having the jurisdiction of a minor. Normally these things would not attract attention, but while he told it, he mentioned that this father had already been denounced by Cruel Treatment.
That is, Abuse.
The doctor told me: "What happens is that this man wanted to have custody of the child for a housing issue ... Normally I refer them to a psychological evaluation to assess what their mental state is and they respond: 'But why am I going? to go to a psychologist, if I'm not crazy '"
This is the case of a father who assaults his son with a budare and tells him that it is garbage, among other things worse ...
Tell me you are not madness.
I felt anger. I felt very stubborn. While a child or adolescent suffers (yes, suffers), there are parents who do not really know where the hell they have their heads.
In truth: where do they have the head?
Parents who do not care about feeding them.
Parents who are not concerned about giving them the security they need.
Parents who worry too much about the problems they have with their partner or neighbors.
Parents who tell him to shut up when he suffers sexual abuse or other worse things.
Parents who laugh or make themselves victims when the abuse of which they are actors is denounced.
Parents who laugh or make themselves victims when the abuse of which they are actors is denounced.
A part of me understands the mental pain that these parents possibly suffer, mental pain that makes them disconnect from reality.
But I still find it inadmissible to see a child pay such heinous consequences for the mental pain of others.
It's not fair.
It is unfair.
Note: I am a clinical psychologist in the court of protection for children and adolescents, in opportunities there are certainly a number of parents who do not respect their children or are simply mentally disabled