About two months ago, I shared with you the story of my friend Yesse. I told them that she spent many years of her childhood in a shelter until she was adopted by a lady, she already had children, so Yesse was treated like the cleaning staff, she had to clean the house, wash clothes and have everything in order .
Among all those responsibilities, he had to study, however his adoptive mother did not allow it. When he was old enough, he started doing work on the weekends to pay for the expenses generated by studying. She had to tolerate aggressions from her adoptive mother to the point that he approached her and beat her. On many occasions, he threw her out of her house, but since she had nowhere to go, she stayed. This is how Yessenia's life went until she was 23 years old, where she married a boy who apparently showed interest, an interest she had never had before. This series of emotional demonstrations confused them with love, with the passage of time if husband became aggressive, despotic and even negligent. She had two jobs and also continued studying on weekends in college, he told her that she was useless. That is how time went by and she channeled to receive rejections until sexual and psychological abuse and after a depressive picture she divorced.
After divorcing, she begins to have a routine that her ex-husband did not allow, such as partying on weekends, continuing to study, buying clothes, and even going for a walk. So time went by and another love affair began, with an equally aggressive boy but this time he physically beat her several times until her friends decided to report her to the police, then he followed her everywhere and harassed her in public places. This relationship ended and the harassment because the police placed a restraining order. Months later he began to go out with a boy very similar to the previous ones, but of this one was pregnant, at the beginning of the pregnancy they lived in the same house of the mother of his couple. Some time later they rented an apartment and right there, he assaulted her in the common areas, took her hair and dragged her across the floor until he took her to the door where they lived. The landlady saw this so she told him that they could not behave this way, their partner leaves at that moment and the next day the CPS starts making visits to touch the door of Yesse's house, asking questions about the event aggressive and her financial possibilities and emotional stability.
As expected, she also had to leave the apartment and did not have a place where, thanks to the rewards of the shared publication, there was another property clearly smaller than the previous one and it was there the visits of the social service were weekly for the verification of the medical check-ups, the medicines that they consume, their daily routine, even the amount of baby items that they were gradually acquiring. Even though Lara has a child she needs, the father of the child in his womb has not been visited or obligated by the social service to help him financially or at least a corresponding allowance for the expense.
These visits unbalanced emotionally a message that she knew where she was going to the situation and that the chances of taking away their biggest ones, among their friends and some adventures, they got it as a thing, moms, clothes and some milk and diapers to prepare for the arrival of this little one. On Monday passport Yesse had scheduled the appointment with medical treatment to provide the exact date of delivery, within two weeks and the truth is that since then she could not sleep because of the concern that generates constant visits of the CPS and how they lurk if home and their privacy. Motherhood in reality should be a time to fill you with joy and not anxiety or sadness.
Many are the ravages that caused the CPS in the life of Yesse, we have the possibility that this is not repeated and allows him to live with his daughter to watch her grow.
The fact that the mass allows the selection for the pregnant doctor and the vitamins or the medicines that he can use, nor the freedom of having his home as it is desired that the employee of the social service take to that yes the toys no son acts for babies too. If you have not made modifications in your home, it is also a reason for them to do so. There are many aspects that must be taken care of and constantly monitor and apart from trying to carry out your life with little money, with someone who takes charge emotionally and economically.