The article I write based on my stories and experiences during my family and after I have a family, because I have a nephew from my own siblings and now have already have a daughter who is getting 1 year old.
Your 2-year-old child whose behavior becomes naughty and inconvenient, imposed will, confused and upset. He's doing as he wishes, from his toys always messy whatever he's looking for, he seems to get bored quickly.
How to solve it?
In the aforementioned issues, it seems necessary to first examine the cause of the behavior change of the child.
However, basically a child at this age begins to show his presence in the world and shows all his new abilities and skills. For that of course children need the opportunity to express themselves.
Give stimulus and many opportunities for children to do various activities diverse. With this fariatif game will certainly occupy the child, so in addition to opportunities for children to explore, children must be given the rules of the game.
Without the rules imposed, the child will grow irresponsibly. Therefore, instilling discipline in children is very dependent on our perseverance and consistent attitude as parents.
Continually remind the child to always clean up the toys or former activities, and to show the mother's support for the importance of this attitude of responsibility, then the mother can offer help.
But keep in mind, do not let our children become his favorite to let his parents who do the responsibility. Here the explanation and expectation regarding the discipline, it is very necessary to be expressed over and over again. Repetition of this explanation is needed so that children can understand properly, but not to cause boredom.
Reveal it in a different way!
Regarding the habit of dismantling toys, then the mother needs to sort the toys and store the alleged unneeded.
Thus, children choose toys that are possible is still preferred. Indeed, the saturation of toys often appear For that, it's good we rotate the presentation of toys in the toy box (toys that some can be used first), so he always felt there was always new. In this way is expected to reduce boredom in children.
The more important thing is to foster good communication between parents and children, so that the feelings of each can be understood. Inter-subject relationships need to be nurtured, so that children feel that they can be understood and appreciated. With this effort the parents can understand the wishes of children, as well as the naughty attitude can be reduced.
Express mother's feelings about disappointing child behavior as well as why it is disappointing. With the openness of mother and child in fostering this understanding, hopefully the neglected feelings can be reduced and even eliminated.
Of course, naughty attitude and so forth which is the expression of child frustration can be positively responded.
The readiness of the mother to help the child understand her own disappointment will provide a very valuable practice toward problem solving May God give patience and strength in shaping the next generation we expect.
