The reality is that one of you is definitely crazy and it's not you....
I have a similar problem with my mother in law who still has 4 horses left over from her eralier days of trail riding, hunting and breeding, but everything she knows is either self-taught or was taught to her by her friend who is self taught. Combine this with a fragile ego and inability to take the advice of others, I often find myself resisting the urge to pull out my own hair with frustration.
Some people just can't handle admiting the truth, even when the opposite only incriminates them further.
RE: It was like the Twilight Zone...