Dear bachelor, manchelor and sister-in-the-lawd
Please do this as you go in search of a life partner.
You see as a marketer and copywriter, in my business or working with clients, one of the things we do before creating any marketing material is to sit and write down a near-perfect description of our ideal customer.
What is generally called "customer avatar."
It helps save us time, energy and money when running a marketing campaign.
This means we rarely miss the mark with our targeted ads.
We know people that get to see our offer is highly-likely to convert. This makes them "confirmed" buyers.
And here is the sweet spot...
We go on to increase our customers Lifetime Value (that's making more profit) with our back-end offers.
Why am I telling you this?
You see, I don't know if your relationship coach has ever told you this.
Your choice of a life partner is not something you can afford to play hit-and-miss with.
That would be dangerous.
It can make or mar you. Guaranteed.
So what do you need to do?
While you're still at it (in search of your missing kidney, abi rib 😀)
Get a pen and paper.
Find a quiet place.
And then start writing down what I call your "Life-Partner Avatar."
Age range
Physical attributes (height, size, figure, skin type 😀)
Value system
Belief system
Personality
Life orientation
Life vision and mission
Once you've done this, keep that close to your heart and work with it.
Now here are the possible challenges you might encounter.
First, world people will tell you that you should forget "physical appearance" and focus only on character.
I won't argue that o!
But here is what I can tell you...
You don't want to be going to a function and ask your husband or wife to stay at home (that you'll be fine)
...or walking down the street 100 miles ahead of him, when you both should be walking hand-in-hand.
For me, it shouldn't be "this" or "that." It should be "this and that."
(By the way, you're not stupid. You should know what is important to you in the grand scheme of things).
Secondly, world people might also tell you that your standards are too high. Just lower it.
For what?
Remember, they will not live with you.
Don't settle for a 1745 model Volkswagen, because you are afraid you cannot finally get your Lamborghini.
You want someone at the same frequency of thought and action with you.
By the way, you want somebody with whom you can always raise the bar (and keep raising it).
In the end, say this short prayer taught me by a friend 😀...
Prayer: God you know I'm a good man. I no get heart o. Please don't punish me with a bad wife. I cannot survive it.
P.S: Say that prayer ONLY if you are a good man or woman. And you no get heart 😂😂😂
