The bear is a false choice.

If it was actually a real choice we would see women only night-clubs. But we don't. Women want that male attention without paying for it. Paying average guys with attention back, or paying society for supporting their manipulative and abusive ways.

This really ends badly for the "bear lovers". Like, exclusion from electricity and running water, because they drove all the real men away.

It is interesting that we tolerate things like The S.C.U.M. Manifesto; or as a society, men do not have a voice that means anything when it comes to misandric rhetoric.