Its a huge hill to get around. I'm not sure I can go to the other side now that i have had in depth friendships and relationships with trans men , trans women, and genderfluid/non-binary persons. I think that the hang up is tragic, not because I'm right or wrong but because people who were assigned the wrong gender or dont fit on the binary system have added so much beauty to my life. You will miss it simply because you chose to deny that they exist. Its a bummer to say the least but it is what it is. I dont come across a lot of feminists on steemit. When I do we always have various disagreements but this one is against the policies of the group I usually invite women to here. :(
As for "intersectional feminism wasn't meant" well, maybe? Or: all feminism is an ongoing exploration of gender equality and sexual freedom. None of us are suffragates, and we don't need to be. That said, its not intersecting being male. They are not male. They are women. :D 🌈
I probably can't engage much if we cant get past this huge hurdle. Best of luck.
RE: Radical Mothering