It is typical to hear this phrase from the people "I do not justify it, but it was something that could have been avoided". OMG! We must bear in mind that the violation from any point of view or whatever the circumstance is an unjustifiable act that is condemned, no victim of rape enjoys the moment, much less asks to be violated. In my opinion, what will happen to the minds of the people who justify these unpleasant acts? At some point, will they have put themselves in the victim's place? A person can take precautions, but what happens! "That we have a lot of confidence" and even those in whom we least think, can become our rapists, that is, we are all vulnerable to this type of acts.
Let's realize that this is something that will mark a person for the rest of his life, bringing with it multiple consequences.
Then my suggestions to prevent acts of violation would be the following:
- Know how to measure your confidence (not all people are what we believe)
- If you have children, teach them not to receive gifts from anyone in secret (many abusers start like this)
- If you know of a rape case or have been a victim of a violation, report it, so that there is no other victim.
- Always show security. In the case of children, be sure to observe them, and be sure to see who they are talking to and what they are talking about.