because you're not being forced to live in those ways....

No one is forced to believe in religion but it's a constitutionally protected right if one does. Just like it's a constitutionally protected right for gays to marry. This isn't about someone walking in and ordering cupcakes or picking up a batch of flowers this is about telling people that they have to participate in a gay wedding against their religious views artistically. This means they work in close conjunction with the wedding designer to prepared and set up arrangements for a gay wedding. Though you and I don't see a problem with this because we are not religious, we aren't held to a doctrine of belief so it's hard for us to comprehend how hard this could really be on them....but in their eyes they see themselves being condemned to hell for it. We have to learn some give and take of respect for opposing views.