Good for you for taking this experience and making it positive by bettering yourself. I keep hearing and telling myself that it's how you handle situations and not what happens to you. For me, it's still battling the mindset of the victim mentality. Why did it happen to me? But from studying the Law of Attraction, I must be responsible in that I attracted it. As tough as it is to swallow, yes, it was me. But good news it, if I send out positive vibes, well, the world opens up!