To get on a more solid path to success and stability to achieve your goals you need to, first off, leave your vices behind. Be it drinking, using any types of drugs (including weed and pills), gambling and even gaming. Leave it all behind. On top of it, let go of people who aren't an enhancement to the lifestyle you want to lead. The people that want to pull you back into the parties that leave you hungover aren't the people you want or need in your life. It can be about where you live but it is also about who and what you surround yourself with.

In short, get rid of bad friends who drag you down, stop drinking and/or using any sort of 'illicit' substances. Get healthy and eat healthy. That includes having at least 2 meals a day (breakfast and dinner) and up to 3 (lunch). Don't eat late at night and be to bed before midnight if you have a day job. Be your own instead of chasing a world that wants you held back. And have a hobby to do on the weekends that doesn't just involve sitting in front of the television, computer or using your tablet all day. Read books, get outside when possible (even when it is just to sit around outdoors), talk to neighbors, taking weekend/Sunday drives. Go to public events, big or small, especially free ones where you can meet a lot of unique people. Don't live locked in and live free.