Some time ago I’ve written about the ‘best’ time to submit a blogpost so you’ll receive worldwide exposure.
I came up with the term 4 o'clocky and I thought this might be a great idea to make a blogpost every day at 4 o'clock local time with this title. Every day I’ll submit a blogpost about something that keeps me busy and is important enough to share so Lets blog on, here we go!
This My 4 o’clocky for today..
Why am I not brutually honest ?
That dave was a busy, ill-mannered and cheeky child. I will take you into todays dilemma ......
You know, every afternoon when I am patiently waiting in front of the schoolyard fence until my darlings come out of their school, and i have planned a nice quiet afternoon of reading a magazine or a piece of work for 
I already see My youngest running, jacket crooked, half open bag and calling :
MAM, Mom, Mom, I know we have agreed not to have a playdate today but Mom can Dave come play with My Lego? Please please please ...?
In the midst of all the other mothers it is difficult to temper such enthusiasm, and normally I encourage a little enthousiasm but not today!!!
NOT TODAY..... but than the puppy eyes appear🤨 so I melt and I am going for thr playdate anyway.
Oh No I am trying once more to convince him otherwise......
But darling mama had agreed with you that we would not do it today, agree on that? We would do some shopping today and then nothing, Mom wants to read quietly.
Yes, but mommm pleaseeeeeeeee! Two puppy eyes still look at me and I hear the mum behind me say; Dave so much likes to play with your Son, he is always so full of joy When he was with you...
Yes, I understand that! I have lovely Sons, 2 great dogs, a nice home and ALOT of Candy! But It is always at Our house 😬 I say nothing and after 3 minutes I'm going to answer.....
Yes, dear, no problem Mum leaves her Nicely prepaired needleworkmonday piece and that magazine in the closet and Will read it next week. I agree with the mother that the date is ok and that I Will drop her sweetheart off after 2,5 hours.
WOW 2.5 hours later, what the h.... just happened? She is going to do something for herself she says with the greatest smile in the whole schoolyard and I just look beat 😬 and sigh ... very very deeply.
We go home and that sweetie of that other mother is slowly changing into a small fire-breathing dragon that knows NO rules. After 25 warnings and the necessary looks my own child has also turned into a dragon.
Fortunately it is time and I now drive with the boys to the mother of this dragon and I will say that this child is a busy, ill-mannered and cheeky kid and that he does not have to come and play anymore !!!
But no .... When i drop him off. He is his sweet Nice and polite childself again, he gives me a hug and says nicely : Thank you for playing and a have nice weekend madame!
His mother is proud of it. My chin dropped on the Floor. Why dont I tell his mum the truth.
Because I am a whimp, a great mum, but a whimp! I am not going to say that I think of her Son like he is beast off a Son. I will try to come up with just another excuse! Because you know what My Son had a great afternoon and smiles at me and says he loves me....... I BELIEVE HIM
LOVE A BIG WHIMP
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