…continued… from part 1, part 2 and part 3.
As previously mentioned take your time and choose the right person FOR YOU. There is no prize for hasty decisions in marriage if you don’t want to live to regret it. A failed relationship is better than a failed marriage. As much as you are attracted to the looks of women, you ought to pay closer look or more attention to the heart. The highest compliment you can give a lady is “**She is very kind”, and not “She is beautiful.” The quality of the heart matters in a relationship. Go for a good heart rather than a beautiful face.
My friend; 
Friendship is important also in a relationship. It helps easy bonding and it makes it easier for you to relate well when issues arise. It means you can be open with each other without holding back. When you talk about anything and everything, it makes it easier for your relationship and it shuts out third parties or external bodies.
Being friend with her make it easy for you two to communicate better. There is no denying the importance of communication in marriage. It saves a whole lot of trouble and also eases boredom. Let’s face it, challenges would come, issues would arise, but the closeness and bond you have created before now would stand you both in good stead.
Be friend with her. You know how you are around your best friend? Be that with her. Let her be that your best friend. It requires a lot of understanding, and commitment. True friendship has no class barrier, so your friendship to her shouldn’t have either.
…to be continued…
Thank you for your time.
My pen doesn’t bleed, it speaks, with speed and ease.
Still me,
My tongue is like the pen of a ready writer.
Olawalium; (Love’s chemical content, in human form). Take a dose today: doctor’s order.