Dankeeeeee! You answered! I just noticed and read it once. I guess I will repeat reading a few times to keep everything in my mind. I see that you mentioned some important things. It seems to be impossible to do everything right in the beginning. Sometimes I don't know where to start ... I want to read a lot of other people's posts, comment to them and everything. I need to find out more about the "rules" (where you are helping me now with the advices above). I want to write more posts myself (but still need so much time) ... And there is still a life in the nonvirtual world 😜. I have this full time optician job, which takes most of my daytime. The most important man in my life demands much of my time and attention too and I love to give it to him. There are my other friends. There are hobbies and not to forget the sleep (I sleep less at present). I'd like to make this thing going well but haven't found the perfect balance between everything yet. But it's ok. I noticed that there must be things I do not right yet because I see other people being more successful. But I am relaxed about that. When I take your example - you said you had a hard beginning and look where you are now! I let this grow with the speed or the time it needs. I am not extremely ambitious. If I find somebody like you who points at mistakes and tells me how to do better, I am very happy so I don't need to do too many "trial&error, trial&errors" but get forward faster. That's why I would love to thank you again, that you are taking your time for me and all the other steemians asking for your advice! That is really amazing! I guess I can ask if I have more questions?
For now I have to go. We are celebrating the hubbies birthday today. Have a beautiful day! I hope we stay in contact and "see" each other again soon! And thank you again!