"A popular saying says: 'Who has not been horn, does not know about love, frankly we can all pass. That is why when we do not fully trust our partner we would like to have a tool that tells us exactly if it is unfaithful or not. "
Suspecting that the person with whom you have a relationship is unfaithful can lead you to not enjoy the relationship at all, since the horns are very painful. Of course one thing is jealousy and the other is the fear of being horned. However, the second is the worst way to maintain a courtship.
Before continuing with this post we must be clear about why you are reading this, so I invite you to choose one of the following options:
You are jealous (compulsive).
You suspect that your partner is unfaithful.
Curiosity.
You want to know if UFOs exist.
If your answer is 1, it does not matter if you keep reading this, even if your girlfriend is a gentle pigeon, you will always live with the movie that is cheating on you, so look for professional help and stop reading this because you will be more paranoid (to).
If your answer is 4, in this post you will not find anything about UFOs, rather stop putting strange substances.
Otherwise, if your answer is 2 or 3, continue ...
Now, it is necessary to clarify that not every sudden change in behavior is a diagnosis that our other half is being squeezed into another juice. The human being on a daily basis is capable of feeling endless emotions and experiencing external and internal situations that lead him to act according to them. It is normal that we want to be happy all the time, but logically we can not always be happy; many times we have days when we do not understand ourselves.
Noticing a repetitive change in the mood of your conjugue may be a symptom not of infidelity, but of diseases such as depression. Of course, as the saying goes, 'there is no worse blind than the one who does not want to see', there are also doubtful behaviors that are worthy of lighting our chunk alarms.
Intuition and knowing how to interpret that suspicious behavior of our partner can easily lead us to discover if he is on bad steps. Making an analysis of certain behaviors today in "A Coloring Blog" we find eight clear signs to suspect or define if you are putting the horns, they are:
Signal 1: 'The time you share with you starts to decrease'. More and more hours go by without contact because you live working in extended days, in plans with friends (as), in meetings or travel. If it happened from one day to the next and became habitual, you have to doubt.
Sign 2: 'Much privacy'. Needing time for one is normal, but if your time alone becomes "you never want to spend time with yourself," then there is definitely a problem friend.
Signal 3: 'Calls at odd hours'. For example the phone rings at 3 in the morning, she / he attends, speaks at least two minutes and says goodbye with kisses. Yes when you ask: Who was it? He replies: "I was wrong" ... Very strange, is not it?
Signal 4: 'When you go out with you it is not fixed and when you do it alone (or) it fixes too much'.
For example:
Woman: When she goes out with you she puts on the first thing she finds and barely manages to comb her hair. But when she goes out alone, she puts on the most pronounced cleavage with the tightest jeans, full makeup and super-groomed hair.
Man: When he goes out alone, he goes with the best paint, he throws all the bottle of perfume, full-combed hair and shaved chin. While when he goes out with you, he does not bathe.
Well, if this happens to you often, I think you have to suspect and leave identifying with the song that says: "Do not tell me in the corner, the venao, the venao ..." (read singing).
Sign 5: 'You have less patience'. He is irritable with you, you feel that everything you say bothers him, anything is a pretext to argue and leave. However, with other people, he is very special. High! That smells bad.
Signal 6: 'It does not give you concrete data and it contradicts itself'. If your partner suddenly starts to omit you names and specific places Alarm! But be careful, we do not have to put together the third world war, because we all say: "with a friend" or "I was around". But if your partner contradicts a lot or things do not agree, you are putting your chins up to your sternum.
Sign 7: 'Your electronic devices have them with passwords and you are very careful so that you do not see what you write'. It does not allow you to take your laptop or tablet, let alone your cell phone. And when he is writing something he hides what he writes so that you do not observe. If you have never protected your privacy too much before and now you do, you need to buy new clothes to match your new clothes, friend.
Sign 8: 'You do not want to plan together or have sex anymore'. He rejects you when you propose an adventure or a plan. And out of nowhere there are penguins in bed. Lighter does not sing a cock, look for employment in a bullring.
- Conclusions *
If less than 4 of these signs match your partner's behavior, do not be silly, but neither jealous nor compulsive. But stay alert, but without stopping