ASSHOLE: someone being arrogant, rude, obnoxious, or just a total dickhead....
For example: Sean is the biggest fucking asshole I've ever met in my life!
by Jenna Tools November 30, 2002
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I don't mind dicks or dickheads if they are real dicks, but it seems that my life is too smooth that some people think that they should drag my hair out of the lavender field and start to fuck me up, so a crying bitch has leveled up her steem power and ready to strike back.
These are my own survival guides when I need to deal with assholes:
STAY STRONG
Do you realize that your enemy can smell your fear? It is the best appetite they feed on. Stand on your ground and never ever let them know your weakness. Be stable and sane as much as possible when they try to piss you off and counting fuck you from 1-256.
REMIND YOURSELF OF "YOUR SELF ESTEEM"
Most of the time assholes are scared of being confronted by a confident person. Their intention is just to mess with your mind with or without them realizing that they are pain in the ass. Keep telling yourself what you are made of and confront them with your confidence. Even when you have to walk away, do it with confidence. If you don't get it, go back to read No.1
SEEK POSITIVE VIBE
http://thuglifememe.com/best-29-positive-quotes-vibes/
Of course assholes suck and they even suck your energy, so you need to go talk to someone who is hilarious or loving and caring. Don't have to explain about the situation or anything. Just be around them and laugh with them. Breathe in and embrace their positive energy because we need to deal with assholes in the next step if they don't stop.
DECLARE YOUR TERRITORY
Whether it is at home or at workplace, it is your own right to protect your own safe zone because it is your FUCKING own territory. Do not talk to them. Do not pick up a call. Keep ignoring them. And if they cross the lines, it is necessary to ask for help. Yes it is not wrong to ask for help if you feel threatened.
BITCH, LET'S GO KICK SOME ASSES!!!!
This step you strike back, whether by words or actions, make sure they get hurt so that they realize that you are not just a weak bitch they can play and toss and throw.
