People have conflicting thoughts about everything (Zappa, 1976) including gender. So where does the problem actually start? Is there a way to understand this? Where do the thoughts come from? They get created somehow, but by who? You! You create them. From feeling the past, perceiving the present and predicting the future. You start out floating around in a sac of slushy amniotic fluid. Just hanging around not doing much except making you. One high speed connection and only one way out.
As soon as you start to make sense of it (APTA UK 2016) you begin to accumulate a past. It has been proven that pretty soon after the initial spark is generated (De Victoria 2010) you started sensing your world. That world belonged to your Mother.
Where she goes you go, what she senses you sense and there is the beginning of your past. She goes to Doctor Whatnot and has an ultrasound carried out. It’s a…!! Joy…after wanting a healthy normal baby the next most asked question - is it boy or girl. Or in N.Y. is it… a twenty-five... twenty-six, twenty-seven, twenty- eight ……? I digress.
He wants a boy…she wants to give him a boy… the baby is a girl… fear, disappointment…confusion….the feeling is strong but only for a second or two then quickly overcome with rational thought… he won’t be upset… a boy next time. Or any of the infinite combinations of that scenario.
All’s well or so it seems. The baby girl now 14 has always “had a feeling” she was the wrong gender… of course, right back then in the womb for a split second she was. And now she doesn’t feel right (Paul 2011) and has no one to help her. Consulting the all-knowing all wise internet she chats with others in the same boat and decides that’s it. I’m trapped in the wrong body. That’s not necessarily the case. Your mother’s emotional message all those years ago is possibly still there affecting the way you feel now (De Victoria 2010).
Please before you chop or attack someone who won’t deny what they see with their own eyes at least try to find a good ethical regression hypnotherapist. Even now that feeling will have less power over you, once fully exposed it will dissipate entirely. You can still dress as you want, have sex with whoever you want but you won’t feel so conflicted about it ….that’s a lock.
References:
De Victoria, Samuel Lopez, https://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2010/06/29/emotional-trauma-in-the-womb/
APTA Club UK 2015,
Paul, Annie Murphy, 2011 
Zappa, Frank 1976,
