It's true, most men (and non-feminist women for that matter) don't stand up to the lies being spun about the gender "pay gap".
True, most of the time these men and women are busy living their lives and being productive.
And this highlights a big practical problem of government. In order to combat this insanity, one must pause being productive in an attempt to convince people that this gender pay gap narrative is incorrect.
The alternative is to be forced to go along with it.