Like nearly every other man in African continent, I kicked off my weekend by going to see men's trip with some set of one of my best friends. Four university college BFF (Best Friend Forever) as they re-unite for a long over due.
Men's trip in Africa for essence festivals. Victor, Daniel, Hezekiah and Micheal formed the "Cynosure's gang" during their time together at University College but over time, let their busy lives got in the way of their squad goals.
This could help guys have the "Brother circle" to uplift them as they navigate both their personal and professional lives, but they still, of all races need a Cynosure gang.
Too as a writer who is also trying to be a successful one, needs a tribe of men who know and understand their dreams and who will have their back as they pursue them.
This probably won't turn into a dance off as if does in the film, but it could mean having a loyal friends and fans who will check critics in your comments sections.
Perhaps you have started filling your blogs with sponsored post for companies you don't even believed in, on products you don't even care about, maybe you're writing a book on a topic that you think will make money with little regard to whether or not it will make a difference, or maybe you're so focused on building your brand that you're writing to sacrifice your own happiness for the sake of a perfect person. Your Cynosure's gang will shut down all of this nonsense!
While we're trying to make a living about loyalty to loved ones and about speaking and living your truth, but it's also just flat out fun.
Sometimes we need to get together with other writers and bloggers not to talk shop but just to let loose and have a good time. This is all about college life, married life, business life, and how we cannot believe some shit take charges.
The blogosphere, writing world and publishing industry is always changing. Trying to stay ahead or even keep up can often feel impossible.
"Our men are our Constant" and that's why we male writers will always need a "Cynosure's crew" of our own.