This is a super complex problem that all the different sides can back up with statistics and data. Yes, there are some instances where you and your loved ones might be safer with you having a firearm, but I'm sure there are instances where there is far more danger because you do. No one can control their temper 100% of the time, nor completely prevent others from getting their weapons. I'd also be curious to see how useful a handgun is against a school shooter armed with assault rifles. I also don't blame the police for not running in guns blazing, it seems incredibly short-sighted.

I have no problems with your gun, or conceal carry, but you can't really blame people for wringing their hands and crying out for change when children in schools are being butchered in huge numbers. You have to admit the US can't keep going as it's going.