I think most women believe that all men want a weaker woman because it will make us feel more incontrol and powerful, i can assure you being a man myself this is not the case at all...
Men want a woman who is playful and energetic, most women make the mistake in thinking they can talk there way into a mans heart but there sadly mistaken.
I think another key factor that attracts a man to a women is being independent and emotionally mature.
Men aren’t as scared of commitment and relationships as they are scared of being in a relationship with a woman where there is no passion and attraction.
A common way women accidentally kill the attraction men might be feeling is by either trying too hard to get him to like you, or by acting like the relationship is too serious too soon.