Not a few men are rejected because they are less handsome and less well-established, strangely, sometimes it is parents who indoctrinate their daughters' brains with the assumption that happiness comes from success, wealth, position and so on.
So, sometimes those who are desperately struggling are those who are thrown away, just because he doesn't have money and because there is something more handsome than him.
In fact, happiness in the household comes from the magnitude of responsibility, not from the establishment and handsome face, because if the responsibility is sufficient then to work hard to make the responsibilities happy (wife and child) will always grow in his mind.
And yes, it is true that in the "future" there is a word "ma & pan", but trust is not the establishment that can guarantee a happy future.
Then do not narrow the mind to find an established one only, pay attention to the morality, character, and knowledge, because adequate responsibility is more valuable than establishment.
It's true that almost all needs need to be bought with money, but thinking wisely before you look at money is everything, because truly happiness is not about money.
Love, trust, openness, and loyalty cannot be bought with money, but are purchased with an adequate amount of responsibility.
Then lose if you throw away the struggling even though he is able to take responsibility, just because you think he is not well-established or just because he is defeated by a new figure.
Indeed, destiny is only Allah who knows, so do not underestimate others just because he does not have anything, because it is easy for Allah to turn things around into an instant.
Then it is a big mistake if you or your parents throw him away who has good religion, good knowledge, and willing to work hard just because he is less established and less handsome.
Because even though the good looks and wealth include the criteria that must be there when choosing a mate, but be aware of the highest religion of both things.
Then for what is a establishment, property, position, and beautiful face, if all that is just deception. Because not a few times now men have fun with such things, but unfortunately their responsibilities do not exist.
That is why what should be a priority when choosing it is responsibility, not to throw away those who have fought only for the sake of those who are money and more beautiful.
Know, the goodness of the future cannot be seen from external appearances alone, it cannot be seen from the appendages of wealth that he clothed, but from responsibility and knowledge that is always adequate.