You can't build your happiness on the sorrows of others, or you will live sad and play the role of happy in the play of life, trying to bring some of the faint applause from others to push you to try to forget the truth
Sometimes our arrogance takes us to the conviction that happiness is an individual thing, which means that a person may reach it despite his abuse of the rights of others, despite his deceit to those around him to gain more things, despite their suffering, despite make them lose the way and dive into circles of sorrows
The truth is that this is not true at all, and it is purely a circle ending with the point that started through it, means that if you are working on the grief of people or make them suffer there must be a pain inside you at the moment you caused pain to the intended person
If you deal with people as things, inevitable you have to feel then that you are just something like other things in life , then you will lose your sense of existence and then yourself, which may lead you to commit even more dangerous things to yourself just to feel that you are still present on this life
Remember that and do not overlook forever! : It is impossible to be happy if you are the real cause (in corrupt or unjust acts or words) in the misery of someone, you may be pretending to others that you are happy, but deep in your depth there will be another reality
Best regards, ✍
M'ssieu Abdo