I wish you well, but I also don't think that 2 interactions with some bad people can reflect on the entire platform. Hive account@feminism is a known troll (bad troll, not funny troll). I have only been on Steemit for 2 weeks, but in that time he has made rude comments to pactically everyone (even me).
I don't know much about the other user, but even if he was a jerk that also does not represent the rest of the community.

I have received nothing but support on here and I follow many great women who are making money and also get very positive responses to their work and their ideas.