As a person who doesn't like to settle down, I only go out with a suitcase. Everyone who is a simple woman, I have received three very "suitable" suggestions from men. The first one is nail polish. The man gave me advice with action. I will give you a set of nails directly. The other two are from other male friends, one is to make up during fitness, the other is to download a good selfie app and take a selfie in a circle of friends. Not to mention my own feelings about these three suggestions, the influence of male aesthetics on women is self-evident here. Of course, what I am talking about is not the effect of nails, makeup and self-portraits, but a broader face.
On a large level of feelings and life, women's life is centered around different males. Whether the driving force behind this is the original instinct or social structure, male and male aesthetics undoubtedly occupy important in women's lives. status. On the one hand, people's social characteristics make the search and attention of social identity inevitable. On the other hand, important relationship is an important part of social identity, and it is also an important part of self-identity.
Because of culture and tradition, male self-identification often contains three important aspects, namely, social identity, important relationship identity, which includes the relationship between friends, family, lover and self-identity. Although the self-identity of modern women is gradually becoming more diverse, many women's self-identity is still closely tied to the important relationship with men. And this is why male aesthetics largely determine women's perceptions of themselves.
However, the male aesthetic is still one-sided. It only determines the female's functionality from the male perspective and the male demand. Whether it is the external visual experience or the physical and emotional needs, in general, it only enlarges and strengthens the female behavior. The conditions that male spouses must possess summarize and condense femininity and femininity, while ignoring the multifaceted and stereoscopic nature of women as separate subjects.
The most important thing is that women themselves also neglect their own subjective needs under the constraints of male aesthetics, and frame the needs of others on their own needs. And this is not imposed on women by anyone. In other words, we have the right to choose, and even have some degree of leadership. All of this depends first and foremost on our perception of ourselves, our own needs, our choices. .