In life you can come to some crossroads. Crossroads of all types can show up. Crossroads can be scary for people who don't like change. That is me. I love stability. When something is going to change I don't do so well. It is hard to make a decision. You keep going over everything in your head. Then you can let outside people make the decision for you. That is a huge risk. No one can make your decision better than you.
The way you need to make the decision is what can change a good or bad decision. I have some big decisions to make in the near future. I have talked with people for advice but find they will try to pull me in the direction what what they think is best or what will make me happy. You have to be strong enough to take the advice and analyze it without being manipulated. People don't always mean to manipulate you but when your searching for answers and have a lot of stress you put yourself in that position.
It is good to get other peoples point of views and see what everyone else has to say. In the end you have to make a choice that will make you happy and give you a decent chance at success. Success without happiness is not success. Also remember there is no perfect solution usually. There will be things to give up and benefit in any decision.
WHAT TO DO?
I think making a list will be the best way to weigh options. What is good and bad about each decision. If there are 5 things to choose from start making lists and cutting out things that don't look so good. For me I will try to make a decision that gives me and my family the biggest chance for happiness and success. You can trade one for the other.
Take your time and make sure what ever you choose, you are the one making the decision. Happiness is in your reach!
