The notion of aggression is relative to everyone, it is subjective and depends on our internal security. In a state of emotional fragility, one will tend to feel assaulted more easily. Nobody is violent by nature, but it happens to everyone to obey his urges of aggression or violence. How to explain violence? How to cure it ? Every man is able to challenge himself on the basis of his sense of being and of his being.
Understanding why a person is violent allows them to move toward healing their own demons.
Why are some people more violent than others?
An overflow of emotions and it feels like exploding internally. The person then seems to be responsible for the hatred that is felt, whereas it is our inability to answer or step back from what is happening that is the cause of this overflow. We do not think then, we hit without really thinking about what we do, or without really knowing who is in front of us.
The start of violence is always anger, frustration, hatred or despair. A suffering is the basis. This feeling takes hold of us little by little, the words do not come anymore. This overflow of feelings means that violence is then used to give an answer. This suffering is a sign of fragility, because the more sensitive one is to emotions, the more likely one is to feel unwell.
Violence and aggression are the products of the frustration of our needs, of repressed frustrations. Violence is always the result of something that has not been heard in someone and wants to be heard.
To foil violence, it is not enough to tell a violent person to stop, on the contrary it is counterproductive, it must wait until it passes. It is an awareness that must be calm.
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