hello, thank u for your reply, i wish u also good luck, i also quited my job already cause this was a major problem, i was a department leader and worked too much also, i will further write much more parts , and i am also for other people here to help and get in contact with them, i learned so much about life. everyone who reads this pls note that the most important thing is to be here at this moment and not somewhere else with his mind.