I've seen in couple of places saying too much masturbation isn't bad, and we know fully well that too much of everything is bad. I'm not trying to sound moral or beIing religious by saying too much of masturbation is not good because it is a habit people get addicted to and anything people get addicted to have their bad sides and also their good sides.
I know fully well the advantages of masturbation which includes:
- it induces sleep
- it relieves stress and tension in the body
- it helps when sex isn't available when there's a deep urge
- it help's when you are not sure of a newly found sexual partner, to avoid STD's and unwanted pregnancy
- It helps to avoid prostrate cancer in men.
Though masturbation has most of this advantages, what about the disadvantages
DISADVANTAGES OF MASTURBATING TOO MUCH IN MEN
There's no doubt that many people on earth mostly men masturbated during their teenage and youthful age.
the disadvantages are listed below
#Psychological trauma:
Due to some moral, cultural, societal and religious values that don't support the masturbation act, after involving in this act there's is a kind of self judgement that comes within telling you that what you've done is not good and it keeps on painting a bad image of you in your mind and that causes you psychological problems making you feel self guilt that you've done something wrong.
The effect of this may lead to a lowered self esteem and a lowered confidence making you feel you are incapable of controlling yourself and instead of having the real sex with the opposite sex, you're busy touching and fondling yourself. When you want to go to somewhere your conscience keeps pricking you've done something wrong, you don't feel as normal as everyone else and the addiction of this could lead you in missing your responsibilities; suspending what you wanna do for a later time or for the wrong time.
And once this psychological instability starts, it tells on your face that your mind isn't clear and makes you start running away from people though you haven't committed a crime. It feels like eating the forbidden fruit in the garden of eden. Leading to seclusion of thyself and more seclusion leads to more loneliness and more loneliness leads to much masturbation.
#Lowered muscle strength, size and lowered stamina( tiredness and weakness):
Because of the much release of sperms which contains lots of proteins it could lead to so much loss in weight and make a firmer muscle to become weak and we know that sexual activities burn lots of calories thereby reducing so much energy in you resulting in weakness and tiredness which can hinder you from handling energy required tasks efficiently, I've heard of cases where people miss their academic works and also people missing their jobs( official duties) because they lack the self esteem( being soaked in guilt) and required energy to carry out the days activities.
This sexual act, I can't deny is a pleasurable act but it makes you feel you can't approach a woman and makes you feel incapable.
#Causes bruises and weakness to your penile organ and also affects relationships:
Because its freely done with your hands it allows you to manipulate your penile organ to your state of satisfaction and this would lead to little bruises on your penis causing you discomfort. And don't forget that too much of it also weakens your penis, because it keeps on going and going after one ejaculation to the other, the pleasure diminishes with time and since it's pleasurable, you want to get another round and this results to long lasting fondling of your penis before you reach another climax or orgasm which you would want to experience, this leads to weakness of the penis and causes bruises to your penile organ.
If you masturbate too much, it reduces your sexual urge for women or your partner because you've already satisfied your urges from masturbation and have exhausted most of your reserved sexual energy which doesn't make you perform well in bed with your partner as a result of weakness of the penis and loss of sexual libido.
NOTE: I'm not against masturbation because I know the good sides of it, I'm just only against involving in it too much( like 5 to 6 times daily).
I tell you all these from experience because how you use your body turn out to give you the result you deserve, just as when you eat good food it tells on you, when you don't it also tells on you, too much of everything is bad.
Then how are you gonna look like when you exhaust your body's calories and protein many times daily; I'm sure it's definitely gonna tell on you.
IF YOU POUR OUT SPERMS ALL THE TIME IT MAKES YOU LOOK WEAK AND FRAIL BECAUSE YOU ARE ALWAYS TAKING VITAL PROTEINS AWAY FROM YOU. ''''what you give is what you get''''
ADVICE:
If you are always lonely at home always indulge in hobbies and activities you're passionate about. e.g singing, dancing, reading, playing video games and exercise like YOGA
Try to reserve your sexual energy by not thinking of sex all the time, though sexual thoughts are very strong feeling that eat up the brain and mind, use the mind control method to curb this; though not so easy; whenever the thoughts come, you have the right to change it by instilling in you something more positive in your mind, even if it comes over and over again and you can't control it, leave that lonely place to a lively place where you can see people talking or moving around.
Avoid viewing sexual materials and books especially at night because the last things you read or view at bed time tend to stick to your mind till the next morning. E.g Pornography and erotic magazines.
Hope my advice would go a long way.
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