It’s the perennial question, likely sprouting up in the minds of all men at some point in their lives: does size matter? At first glance, this seems like a “Yes/No” answer, but I think an important follow-up question would be “To whom does(n’t) size matter?” I will explore this question in a two-part post, one from the female perspective and one from the male, to explore aspects of penis size and its impact on self-esteem and relationships.
Ladies First
Plenty of voices are heard heralding “the motion of the ocean”, but how often does a captain desire take a battleship cruiser into a bayou, or a dingy into open sea? Ultimately, each vessel has its ideal conditions and locations in which the captain operates. Could this hold true for coordinating pleasure as well?
The term vagina does not refer to the readily visible lips on the exterior, but to the canal that leads to the cervix and the uterus. Just as with the formation of the labia, discussed in my previous post, there is variability in the dimensions of the cavity and even in the layout. At the deepest point of the vagina, there will be an ending that meets the bottom of the uterus aka the cervix. Depending on the timing within the menstrual cycle, the cervix may be lower in the canal and firm, or higher and soft. Could a penis that is longer than the partner’s vagina be uncomfortable? You bet your butt! Does a girthier member apply better pressure to the pudendal nerve. Does a shorter cock have a penetrative advantage for hitting the popular g-spot?
But even when hitting in the right ranges and angles, will that always guarantee orgasm? The current data says “maybe not”. OMGYes.com’s survey, the subject of the review series, says only 18% of women respondents achieve orgasm from vaginal penetration alone. This does not mean that the other 72% are only using the clitoris, a range of 10-15% report no orgasms at all. Are these numbers truly indicative of a physiological ability? Could a better level of education of anatomy and function bump up ease of orgasm? I certainly believe further understanding of sexuality is a worthy exploration and will lead to better enjoyment for women and their lovers.