You know how it goes right? If I just get that job, car, or relationship I will feel better and be happy. Then what happens? You might feel happy for a while, even for a few years until the feeling of discontent or longing rears its ugly head. Maybe what you have attracted into your life has wounded you again? Old pains and traumas have been triggered and you're back where you started. You start to see history repeating itself all over again. Its at that point that the question needs to be asked, is this just a coincidence or am I supposed to be learning a lesson here? Is there something deeper I have been avoiding?
See the thing is everything in society is designed to keep you constantly looking outside yourself for answers, there is so much noise around us what with TV, newspapers, media the list goes on. Particularly when you observe how our physical appearance is deemed so much more important than anything else. Sorry but having big muscles and a nice pair of boobs is great and all, but it wont improve the quality of your relationships or the people you draw into your life, especially if you have a lot of unhealed trauma.
Understanding this simple fact that we will be given the experiences which directly correlate to how we feel about ourselves on a subconscious level is vital in order to strive towards true happiness and fulfillment. So for example, if you have a childhood betrayal wound that has not been dealt with, then there is a high chance you will draw people into your life people that may betray you. Why? Because the Universe wants you to heal and move past that wound so you pull in someone more in alignment next time.
I believe we are all here to grow and evolve, if we stagnate and don't see the trends in our lives then we will suffer. I have myself in the past. So if there are trends in your life you are seeing, then chances are there is a necessity for emotional work to be done. You owe it to yourself to stop the rot and live the life you deserve.
Here is a recent video I made where I talk about this and the need to heal the inner child within.
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