Hello Steemians,
Have you ever asked yourself what’s the difference between you and Bill Gate, Warren Buffett, Oprah Winfrey, Elon Musk and other great folks you know?
Have you ever wondered why you look like your relatives, family?
Have you ever wondered why you have the same habits as your family, friends and neighbor?
Have you ever wondered why you keep getting the same results over and over?
Where do we get our habits? PARADIGM is a multitude of habits. We a program genetically that’s why we look like our relatives. Then after birth, we are program with our outside world. Image if you were born in New York and then you were placed to Tanzania and there was nothing about English and no religion. Do you know that you would grow up fluent in Swahili and no nothing about English?
You see, what’s ever going in our minds when we were children becomes programming. We are program genetically and environmentally. That’s why we have the same habits as the people surround us do have. Your big sister she’s tweeting, so when you get an i phone you want to do it. Your best friend is charting with his girl till mid-night and you want to do the same. The guy that your competing with bought a new suit his pam night and an expensive neckless for your crass and you going to do anything to get on top of him. Your neighbor bought a new car so you want to keep up with him, you go but what his driving. You not living your life, your living somebody else’s life.
Our habits we get them from the people who do surround us. Image if all people around the world would have been waking up at 4 am. Who would have been a sleep at 8 am? No one. Why? Because we could have been programmed by our environment.
If you ask anyone you know, all of us, we have the desire of being systematic with our things like waking up early, arriving on time in our appointments, giving 100% at work, being committed with our dreams. Infarct everybody hate being a medeoca. But when we come in reality a lot of us we medeoca’s, we are lazy, we don’t make it on time, we wake up late, we are leaving beyond our dreams and our goals.
That’s the problem with you, me, all of us. That’s the different between us, broke people and the successful guys, they spend their 24 hours wisely, but we don’t. We send tweeting, charting, watching Tv, going out wasting time, but they don’t. They make sure that they archived something with their 24 hours but we make sure we have waste our 24hours and if you haven’t waste even few hours in a day you feel bad about it. But great people the feel bad going to bed without any achievements in a day.
You want to change, guess what? You are not too late. Whatever any age you are right know, believe this that you are not late, the only moment that that you will be too late is the moment when you decide to quit.
Start by changing one habit after another. Don’t try to change your 24hour schedule just I a day, you going to fail. Why? Because to became a master in anything it doesn’t take a day, it takes time. Peek a habit to eliminate, may be watching Tv in a week or waking up early, or learning to avoid your phone. After you have pick one avoid it for 7 days and every day assess yourself.
I promise you if you start to change any of your habits soon you will start feeling go about the new you and hope will pop up, believing that you can go that other extra mile. You will see yourself changing.
Change your surroundings. Watch people who you hang out with, are they pushing you forward or helping you in falling behind. Don’t be scared to eliminate some folks from your life, just be honest with yourself cause your happiness is your responsibility and yours alone.
Give yourself an gender, stop waking up like an accident. Have a specific time for you to go to bed and for you to wake up and understand what must you archive in that day or else days will turn to weeks, weeks will turn to months, months will turn to a year, and a year will turn to years, years of medeoca.
Be obsessed with your dreams, that’s how great people are and adapt other characteristic that great people do have. You want to become successful in changing your habits? Then understand this, everything comes with a price and the price of success in anything is HARD FREAKING WORK. When you feel of going back to your habits even for a second know that NO PAIN NO GAIN.
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“Dreams give rise to hope, hope inspire efforts, and efforts results in success.”