Her birthday Diary....#13.EXPECTATIONS

Expectations...>>>13
Lets talk of expectations of others..This is because, after people perceive you in a certain way, they expect some actions from you. Like I shared previously, we all do these things except that some are too vicious with theirs. Please lets see it from this angle if I Hive account@mcsamm should be in the picture now. It's me because l do know myself more and the happenings in my life than any one does. As a young student leader back on campus, I realized that some people would even want me to dress in a certain way( like sow my things bigger than my size!). How do I buy cloth, give it to my designer who takes my measurement, pay for it and take something that is not fitting me well?

All because I'm a leader of the student body in college and there is nothing wrong with me wearing it big, but hey if this all students in the various colleges and universities will do it that way, I won't!!! I will not allow someone to run my life for me while that person lives his or her comfortable life, simply because I'm a student leader, no way! (Because I don't see getting it right with your dress is sin!)

It's so unfortunate that we make ourselves fall into others expectations of us, that most times, lead us into sin. Why do I keep a double life to please another just so he or she can praise me? Why do I subject myself to things I don't like just because someone expects them from me?
This has made lots of us hypocrites just because we want man to praise us, how about God? It's better to get His nod than that of man!

My point;
you cannot meet the expectations of others, so be yourself and please God rather than man!
This is Hive account@mcsamm and what I have shared is true!

本週，我分享了#herbirthdaydiary，側重於[知覺]（https://steemit.com/motivation/@mcsamm/her-birthday-diary-perception-12），因為你錯過了上一集。今天我跟隨另一個重要的人，我會在生命的旅程中看到更加謹慎的態度。如果你非常關注並且如此小心，這種鹽肯定會使你的湯更加美味。

期望... >>> 13
讓我們談談別人的期望。這是因為，人們以某種方式感知你，他們期待著你的一些行動。就像我以前分享的那樣，我們都是這樣做的，只是有些對他們來說太惡毒了。請讓我從這個角度來看，如果我Hive account@mcsamm現在應該在圖片。這是我的，因為我知道自己更多，生活中的事情也比任何人都多。作為校園裡的一名年輕的學生領袖，我意識到有些人甚至希望我以某種方式打扮（比如播下我比我的體型更大的東西！）。我該如何購買布料，把它交給我的設計師，他們需要我的測量，付出代價，並採取一些不適合我的東西？

所有這些都是因為我是大學學生組織的領導者，穿著這個大學沒有什麼不對，但是如果這所大學裡的所有學生都這樣做的話，我不會這麼做！我不會讓別人為我自己的生活而生活，因為我是學生的領導者，不可能！ （因為我看不到你的衣服是正確的！）

很不幸，我們讓自己落入別人的期望中，這是最多次的，導致我們陷入罪中。為什麼我要保持雙重的生活來取悅另一個人，這樣他或她可以稱讚我呢？為什麼我會把我自己置於不喜歡的地方，只是因為有人期望我呢？
這使我們很多偽君子只是因為我們想要人讚美我們，那麼上帝呢？得到他的點頭比男人好點！
我的觀點;
你不能滿足別人的期望，所以做你自己，請神而不是人！
這是@ mcsamm，我分享的是真的！