When a woman believes that by veiling she feels more comfortable and feels more protected, then it's fine to wear it. So what if you open it later? It's okay, because wearing a veil is not a must.
The face and palms of a woman are not aurat, so if there are those among us who release pairs of veils, there is no need to make gossip material, because it is not a sin.
But The sin is when you release your hijab, because the obligation to wear hijab (covering the aurat) is required for a woman who claims to be a Muslim and has aqil baligh.
Therefore, don't be cynical, ukhti, when you see our brother who is still not istiqamah wearing a veil. Don't say things, leave him with his beliefs.
Because if we get used to busy insinuating his behavior which we think is wrong, be careful of our acts of worship reduced by God because it desires to people who are not necessarily in accordance with our expectations.
Veiling is not something that is mandatory, so you don't have to judge him who is still not fully equipped. Because it is unnatural and may not be if he releases his hijab at will.
And what we need to remember too, is that even if he is wrong because he has released the hijab, he likes it, then we cannot judge him
But our job is to remind him to return to the right path. And about his sin, let God take care of God later.
So, don't let our hearts and minds reflect badly on those who are veiled and sometimes not, let God judge his heart.
We should never keep our hearts busy with feelings of indifference, so that our worship will be well preserved by Allah's side.
Because we do not have the right to judge how they act, what is important is that we always know that we are still in His rules right now.
Yes, it is more important to take care of one's own good, rather than taking care of the good of others, because God also likes it when we are busy improving ourselves for Him.
So know, wherever we are, keep our hearts constantly prejudiced with others, busy our hearts and minds with kindness.
Because being busy assessing the lives of others really only makes us forget to judge ourselves to stay good and right before God.